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so unhinged is a weekly newsletter on how to swipe, swerve and survive the dumpster fire that is modern dating.

Whether you’re here to level up your dating life, to have a laugh or even just for a weekly hate read, subscribe below to have so unhinged drop into your inbox every Friday.

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Think of it as your pre or post-date check-in, your weekly hype-up, and your complete guide to dating.

About Sophie

​​Sophie Howe is a lifestyle journalist, dating and relationship coach and Cosmopolitan Australia’s sex and dating editor.

She has written for titles such as The Australian, Wish Magazine, Mansion, New Idea and Mamamia, and she has been featured as an expert in publications including ELLE Australia, Forbes, Body+Soul and Refinery29.

Outside of office hours, you’ll find her doling out dating advice over drinks with her friends, as well as a few strangers on TikTok.

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